Tuesday, January 5, 2010
A quote that i took from a book written by Brad Blanton.
Here it goes :
We all lie like hell. It wears us out. It is the major source of all human stress. Lying kills people.
The kind of lying that is most deadly is withholding, or keeping back information from someone we think would be affected by it. Psychological illness of the severest kind is the result of this kind of lying.
O.o . . . I din know just keeping things to yourself and lying is the main cause of people getting all sorts of psychological diseases. ._.
Let's start being honest with ourselves and with others. =D! No one wants to deal with another's persona i believe. Everyone wants to know the real you. So do not be afraid! Be who you are, you might lose some friends or have people disagree with you, but who can actually reject you as a person? No one but yourself. (: People can only reject their perception of you and that doesn't matter. Why have a friend who cannot accept you as who you are? You would be suffering, unable to voice anything you wanna say, unable to do what you want to do, unable to accomplish what you wanna accomplish and the worst fact, that friend doesn't even aid you in anyway to your success and health. In fact, they are only harming you, becoming an obstacle to your road of success and causing you to get serious psychological diseases xP. Then you will have to see me and pay me! Don't want that to happen? ^^. Choose your friends wisely. Be yourself. Be Happy, Be free. Be Healthy. (:
On the note of being yourself, I read on another book that mentions this which i find to have the most sense out of all. Being yourself doesn't mean that if you are shy, you remain shy and refuse to talk unless that is the ideal self that you wanna be. Being yourself means to try your best to being your best ideal and imaginary self. All of us have an ideal self that we wanna become, and being yourself means exactly to strive and being that cause when we reach that state of ideal self, we will have a new ideal self. Continue improving XD!
Another thing I read which seemed so true is this. I may quarrel with you at 9am this morning, but we can actually be the best of friends at 10 am. I might hate your guts today, but i might admire your bravery the next day when you go skydiving. There are no absolutes like if I don't like you now, I don't like you forever. And no bullshit like, I hate you then, for any kind of reason, so I still hate you now. You would be losing out on the wonderful gifts that the person might be able to offer. Linking below, even though a person might always be dealing win/lose deals to you, there can be a time where he/she presents win/win deals to you. Do you reject the deal because he used to deal win lose deals to you and you hate him? or do you accept the win/win deal this time and give you and the person a chance to benefit together? (: You know the answer.
Much information on self help can be gotten everywhere. From the net, from books, from gurus and from experienced personnel. However, we all know that only a minority of people, maybe 10% of them ever become successful. Why is that? because 90% of the people would read and agree but not implement ( Lacking Courage, I get that.. All the time too. Try, try and try again ), some would read and think these are bullshit and continue with their way of life ( Have you even tried? and tried hard enough in the right way? ), some don't even bother improving as they are satisfied with their life, staying stagnant from the year 2000 to the year they lie down, buried under the ground or burnt to ashes. Do you want a legacy? Do you want your life to make a difference to someone or even more? Or do you wanna live the routined life that has absolutely no excitement? Take your pick. Make your choice, everyone has a choice, do not deny yourself of one.
Everything mentioned are just fruit for thoughts. Well received, badly received, it all depends on you, the reader. I do know that I do not have any form of experience or qualifications( Masters, PhD, whatever ) to show you the amount of credibility I have, thus, i took ideas from books and people to transform them into learning points that make sense to me, hopefully they make sense to you too. I love you all, my friends, my enemies, my relatives and my dearest. (:
Strive and Love
----- Andy -----
Here it goes :
We all lie like hell. It wears us out. It is the major source of all human stress. Lying kills people.
The kind of lying that is most deadly is withholding, or keeping back information from someone we think would be affected by it. Psychological illness of the severest kind is the result of this kind of lying.
O.o . . . I din know just keeping things to yourself and lying is the main cause of people getting all sorts of psychological diseases. ._.
Let's start being honest with ourselves and with others. =D! No one wants to deal with another's persona i believe. Everyone wants to know the real you. So do not be afraid! Be who you are, you might lose some friends or have people disagree with you, but who can actually reject you as a person? No one but yourself. (: People can only reject their perception of you and that doesn't matter. Why have a friend who cannot accept you as who you are? You would be suffering, unable to voice anything you wanna say, unable to do what you want to do, unable to accomplish what you wanna accomplish and the worst fact, that friend doesn't even aid you in anyway to your success and health. In fact, they are only harming you, becoming an obstacle to your road of success and causing you to get serious psychological diseases xP. Then you will have to see me and pay me! Don't want that to happen? ^^. Choose your friends wisely. Be yourself. Be Happy, Be free. Be Healthy. (:
On the note of being yourself, I read on another book that mentions this which i find to have the most sense out of all. Being yourself doesn't mean that if you are shy, you remain shy and refuse to talk unless that is the ideal self that you wanna be. Being yourself means to try your best to being your best ideal and imaginary self. All of us have an ideal self that we wanna become, and being yourself means exactly to strive and being that cause when we reach that state of ideal self, we will have a new ideal self. Continue improving XD!
Another thing I read which seemed so true is this. I may quarrel with you at 9am this morning, but we can actually be the best of friends at 10 am. I might hate your guts today, but i might admire your bravery the next day when you go skydiving. There are no absolutes like if I don't like you now, I don't like you forever. And no bullshit like, I hate you then, for any kind of reason, so I still hate you now. You would be losing out on the wonderful gifts that the person might be able to offer. Linking below, even though a person might always be dealing win/lose deals to you, there can be a time where he/she presents win/win deals to you. Do you reject the deal because he used to deal win lose deals to you and you hate him? or do you accept the win/win deal this time and give you and the person a chance to benefit together? (: You know the answer.
Much information on self help can be gotten everywhere. From the net, from books, from gurus and from experienced personnel. However, we all know that only a minority of people, maybe 10% of them ever become successful. Why is that? because 90% of the people would read and agree but not implement ( Lacking Courage, I get that.. All the time too. Try, try and try again ), some would read and think these are bullshit and continue with their way of life ( Have you even tried? and tried hard enough in the right way? ), some don't even bother improving as they are satisfied with their life, staying stagnant from the year 2000 to the year they lie down, buried under the ground or burnt to ashes. Do you want a legacy? Do you want your life to make a difference to someone or even more? Or do you wanna live the routined life that has absolutely no excitement? Take your pick. Make your choice, everyone has a choice, do not deny yourself of one.
Everything mentioned are just fruit for thoughts. Well received, badly received, it all depends on you, the reader. I do know that I do not have any form of experience or qualifications( Masters, PhD, whatever ) to show you the amount of credibility I have, thus, i took ideas from books and people to transform them into learning points that make sense to me, hopefully they make sense to you too. I love you all, my friends, my enemies, my relatives and my dearest. (:
Strive and Love
----- Andy -----
MADDY . 10:01 AM.